Single Girl Suppers

Seeing as how I’m cooking for one most nights I don’t find it all that exciting most times. Since getting my own place I’ve made a couple of trends when it comes to meals for supper. They aren’t all exciting, healthy or creative but they get the job done, leaving me with a full belly and the peace of mind that the groceries are being put to good use. Sticking to my budget as it applies to food seems to be harder for me when I don’t feel like making only one serving’s worth of food each night, because it’s just easier to grab something on the way home. But alas, I’m getting better at sticking to my guns and coming home to cook a meal. It’s been paying off too, because I’ve learned a few new recipes and tried foods I may not have bad before, all because I just made myself cook. It may seem like a small achievement, but it’s a stepping stone, and one day when (hopefully) I must put dinner on the table each night for my big ‘ol happy family I’ll wish I had just one mouth to feed (and one person’s mess to clean!). So here’s a few things I’ve been enjoying from my kitchen. Bon Appetit!

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See below for the details of my passion for pasta :)

Salad: It’s a go to for lunch and dinner because it’s easy to make, easy to switch up and always a healthy option. I like to get Iceberg lettuce, arugula, and especially baby spinach for the greens. After that I may add grilled chicken (I buy the grilled then frozen, cut chicken breasts and can microwave them pretty quickly) or another meat like cubed ham. I almost always use ranch dressing, mainly because it’s never missing from my refrigerator! Depending on what I have on hand I’ll throw sliced almonds, craisins, tortilla strips, sliced carrots, red onion, cucumbers or other veggies in there too. I especially like to make a salad for supper if I come home hungry and want to eat right away- no waiting for something to cook when you can just grab whatever you have that’s fresh and call it a salad!

Breakfast for Dinner: I pretty much choose scrambled eggs and toast each time I make breakfast for dinner. Once in a while I’ll make french toast or pancakes instead. It’s funny that I so look forward to eating breakfast for dinner because I hardly ever actually eat breakfast foods in the mornings. Apart from cereal and granola bars my morning diet doesn’t include much. But give me the chance to make a breakfast food feast come six 0′clock? Well count me in and hand over an apron!

Pasta: Can I just state for the record my deep and utter love for pasta? I’ve got to hand it to the Italians for having some pretty yummy dishes to indulge in. It does get a little tricky when it comes to all the dairy incorporated into pasta dishes because I’m lactose intolerant, but I’ve found ways around it and always keep lactaid (a dairy digestive supplement) on hand. I try to have one or two boxed pastas in the cabinet for weeknight meals. I also pre-cook and freeze away hamburger meat and Italian sausage so they’re easy to add to the dishes if I don’t use the frozen, pre-cooked chicken breasts. Prego tomato sauce or generic alfredo sauce are what I mix with the pasta and meat, then voila! Dinner’s ready, I’m happy and clean up is pretty easy.

Soup: Throughout the winter I turn to soups for my dinner quite a bit. I keep oyster crackers in the cabinet and add them to just about each kind of soup I like to eat. I enjoy chicken noodle (of course), tomato, chicken corn chowder, potato chowder, Italian wedding style and some others I can’t remember right now! Soups are quick and easy to whip up whenever you make it home at night, and depending on the type, can be pretty healthy options too. As summers slinks into town I probably won’t eat soup as often, but for the winter months they’re a staple.

Grilled Sandwiches: They go really well with soup, if you’re down for that type of thing, and make great use of bread, cheeses and meats you probably already have. They pretty quick to throw together and can be made with almost anything on hand. I enjoy these from time to time and count on them for a quick supper when it sounds right.

I probably have some others that are more or less notable but of course, I can’t think of them right now. Tonight, my sister and I made tortellini with sliced tomatoes and grated Parmesan cheese. It was a nice easy meal to throw together when we both were starving but wanting “real food” (not fast food or just a PB+J). Now, as I sit here typing this up, we both have full bellies and even thought ahead to save some for her husband who will be home later. I think we can call that “Super Sister Supper Skills”, I dig it. :)

From the prairie with love,

Emily

Weathering Me

Today I’m going to get a bit personal, a bit deep, and a tad bit existential… Bear with me.

With anxiety, some days feel like this... times ten.

With anxiety, some days feel like this… times ten.

 

It’s no secret that I deal with anxiety and at times panic attacks. I try not to hide this part of myself from the rest of the world because I never want another to feel that they are all alone if they find themselves in a similar situation. I found out that I dealt with a real medical issue and not just a small problem when I was a senior in high school. Since that time I’ve had my ups and downs an weathered a storm or two in my mental state. Through it all I’ve come to find the same lesson to be learned time and again, and here it is: I will always be dealing with my anxiety and I will never really defeat it completely. Now I know this may sound  like a downtrodden outlook, but in reality it fits my outlook on the rest of life too. The reason I will never defeat my anxiety is because it will always be changing just like I am always changing. I will always come to find new parts of myself, things to deal with, lessons to learn and all the in between bits as life goes on it’s way. So in turn I will always find panic and anxiety within my own situations.

I choose to see this as my normal. Some people will never have a panic attack in their life. Some people will never know the life-sucking qualities of severe anxiety. For better or worse I know both of those things pretty well in my personal life and I know that they are innately a part of me. So my normal is one that errs on the side of caution and runs on the smooth paths, and I’m ok with that as long as I know I’m doing what’s best for me mentally physically and spiritually.

I hope that by sharing my outlook on this topic it can bring peace to someone else who may deal with this or a similar situation. If I can do that for one person I’d be ecstatic! I wish I had something to read from an inside perspective when I first dealt with anxiety, and if I can be that perspective for another than I feel honored.

From the prairie with love,

Emily

Sunshine State of Mind

Good morning!

It’s a record two posts in two days around here, get excited. :)

It’s a beautiful Saturday morning and the sun is out, the clouds are puffy, they sky is blue and everything is starting to bloom and gain some green here in Kansas! Why not share a little sunshine with this post as well? Here are the following, randomly selected, happiness inducing sunshine-y finds for this beautiful Saturday:

 

Start your day by listening to this song by Joshua Radin. It’s called Brand New Day off of his album Simple Times. This songs really does make you feel like everything will be ok. Give it a try! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=97df0Q5qxa8

Next, give you self a little treat. Maybe these will do?

How cute are these little bites of heaven?!

Maybe, like me, you’re a girly girl who just needs some pampering time to put you in that relaxed mood. In that case, new shoes anyone? Yes please!

These might make you do a happy dance!

Perhaps your space needs some brightening up. Grab some fresh flowers while out and about; it’s a sure way to make your surroundings seem refreshed and vibrant (even if today is just laundry day)!

Grab these garden beauties for a dash of happy in your house!

 

This next picture looks like a dream place to me! If I could live there for a day, I’d be set for life. Wherever you happen to be, soak up the sunshine that falls down and be happy in your place. But just in case it’s winter where you live, or it’s cold and dreary and Spring has yet to spring to action, imagine this place below as your own!

This place makes me want to go barefoot for the day!

Wherever you are, however this Saturday treats you, I hope you find the sunshine in your life. Today I plan to snuggle the dog, paint my nails, take a walk and bake a treat. A little self indulgent? Maybe. But then, what are Saturdays for if not to fill them with sunshine an happiness?

From the prairie with love,

Emily

Read All About It!

Confession: I’m finding that I really enjoy reading blogs.

Newsflash: This is a surprising turn-around for me, and here’s why:

  • I used to think that blogs were boring.
  • I used to think that blogs were for the self-obsessed.
  • I used to think that blogs were hard to get excited about.

Well those feelings have changed, my friend.  I feel a tad bit sorry because of the feelings I had in the past towards blogs. Nowadays I really look forward to some of the people in the blogging world putting up a new post or updating their site. It’s become a new favorite downtime activity for me. Sure, not every blog you run across is going to be the most exciting, exhilarating or ”oh my goodness this completely relates to my life” experience, but it sure doesn’t hurt to give them a try.

There’s people I know who really don’t enjoy blogs and that’s fine too. I used to fit into that category myself. Now that I write my own I am obviously more interested in the blogs of others too. But if you’d rather not indulge in this category of social media or platform of writing that’s totally fine. To each his own. For me it comes down to the fact that this is a free space to create. This space is my own to say, think or share my thoughts and feelings. Sometimes its my place to reminisce on my memories or seek out my aspirations. I genuinely enjoy the creative outlet this provides me. Whether I choose to post every day or once in a blue moon, this place, this space, this slice of the internet is my own – and that feels nice! So thanks for reading if you’ve stayed tuned in so far. I hope to keep this going and keep the blog ball rolling, if you know what I mean!

From the prairie with love,

Emily

~~~PS: Here is a small snippet of the very varied assortment of blogs I’ve enjoyed in these past few months. Enjoy!

Sprinkle of Glitter, or Louise from the UK, posts about her life in which she holds the following rolls: bright and shiny twenty-five year old, young and in love wife, mother to a two year old, friend to many, blogger of the internet and YouTube channel creator/star. She shares her fashion, make up and beauty interests, plus all of the general fun and happiness in her life. I really enjoy the way she writes, it feels just like having a conversation with a fun and witty friend. A good read from the across the pond is something I look forward to from this British gal.

You can find Louise, or Sprinkle of Glitter at:

http://sprinkleofglitter.blogspot.com/

Zoella, or Zoe is another British blogger I’ve been enjoying. She happens to be the “best chummy” (don’t you love that term!?) of Louise, whom I mentioned above. Zoe’s posts about beauty, fashion, make up an lifestyle always leave me feeling cheery and pleased. In particular, Zoe has been brave enough to open up about her struggles with anxiety and anxiety attacks. Since I too have struggled with those nasty life-suckers it’s been nice to read someone else’s views on this sensitive topic, especially since we are similar in age and seem similar in disposition. Zoe also runs a YouTube channel and has found success due to her fun and informative videos. The posts on her site and her channel correspond well and have been my guilty pleasure for the past few months.

You can find Zoe, or Zoella at:

http://www.zoella.co.uk/

Pink Pistachio is written by the warm, fun and light hearted blogger Missy from America. She has the following categories to browse through: Beauty, Dog, Family, Fashion, Food, House, and Tutorials. The posts on Pink Pistachio are always light hearted and upbeat with a gentle dash of the real life thrown in for good measure. Her two sons are absolutely crazy adorable, and the posts she shares about her thriving marriage are always uplifting and inspiring. It’s a pleasurable read every time I peruse the Pink Pistachio site and I’m eager to recommend Missy’s posts to almost any kind of blog reader. I hope you love her too!

You can find Missy, or Pink Pistachio at:

http://www.pinkpistachio.com/

Essie Button, or Estee, is a Canadian girl currently residing in London with her dashing boyfriend Aslan. She posts mostly about beauty and fashion, but also shares some random/fun favorites month to month. As is the case with Louise and Zoe, Estee branched out into the YouTube community and goes by the user name of Essie Button there as well. With the combination of written posts and video updates it’s fun to keep up with her life and interests. Her refreshingly honest product reviews and real-world views on various topics makes Essie Button a nice place to chill and have some girl time if you’re in the mood.

You can find Estee, or Essie Button at:

http://www.essiebutton.com/

Last, but certainly not least on this list of current favorite reads is the wonderfully Midwestern (OK and KS are basically next door neighbors!) Ree Drummond, AKA The Pioneer Woman. I first picked up her cookbook to give as a Mother’s Day present last year. I was reading the book’s jacket and found her website information. I figured it would be typical author’s site, but was pleasantly surprised to find it to be more personal and blog based in form. Her posts about the ranching and family life, funny times, scrumptious cooking and all the in-betweens make for an enjoyable read. I love the layout and visual characteristics that she uses to show off her personality and personal style through the site. She also started the sister site The Tasty Kitchen as a place to share recipes and food stories for the whole of the blog community. Ree has gone on to star in her own Food Network show on Saturday mornings and has found success in her writing, cooking and TV adventures. If you’re looking to find a great recipe for some down home food, learn about the life of a ranching family, or laugh your behind off while reading about real everyday life, then head on over to enjoy Ree’s site.

You can find Ree, or The Pioneer Woman at:

http://thepioneerwoman.com/

Super-Tech-Dad to the Rescue

  • Fact: I’m not terribly tech savvy.
  • Here’s another fact: My Dad IS pretty tech savvy.
  • Here’s one last fact: My Dad is my go-to-guy for just about everything technological in my life.
With a good explanation, real world examples and frequent practice, I can pick up new technology information and/or skills pretty well. The problem is that I don’t always have all three of those readily available let alone the time to take each step. So I’m left tripping my way around the world of technology (as it relates to my life) and somewhere along the way I inevitably get lost. This is where good ‘ol Dad steps in. Here’s a few examples of my recent conundrums:
  • Why won’t my phone use the 3G when I’m away from a WiFi connection?
  • Where do I go to fix this broken space bar on my laptop? (thisproblemwasparticularlyannoying)
  • Do I need to pay attention to these pop up reminders from Adobe?
  • Where can I compare prices for internet service for my apartment?
  • What does the “Fn” stand for on that one tiny key on the keyboard?
What I’m basically saying is that my dad is my own personal Google search for anything having to do with technology… or my car… or finances… but not make up and hair, definitely not those!
What I’m also saying is that I’m thankful for my smartypants father and the fact that he’s so willing and able to help his 22-year-old quizzical daughter. Sometimes he makes me pick up some sweet tea or my sweet brothers in exchange for his expertise, but that’s really quite a bargain when you think about it. So here’s to the Papa Bear, and all his tech savvy skills, I’d really be quite lost without him.
From the prairie with love,
Emily

“Clearance” Is My New Favorite Word

Welp (yes that’s a word, to me at least), I’m all moved in to my new place and terribly lacking on an update. Here it is: I hardly had anything to move, so the entire process took exactly one morning. The unpacking process however, I managed to make that span a couple of weeks, but only because I didn’t mind being a bit lazy about it. The apartment is working out really well, and the only complaint I have is that my neighbors are not really my cup of tea, per say. I’ll put it this way, they must be trying out for a debate team soon with all of the arguing they do, and they have to be billionaires in the furniture moving business to explain all the booming noises that often happen above my place. I kid, and it’s really fine, it’s just apartment living.

In other news, I will be hosting my first house guest for thanksgiving this year! I really lucked out and got the one person who won’t complain about a thing, you see, I got my Grandma Jo. She’s the type who won’t put down the dish rag until you physically steal it from her hands, and she won’t stop offering to make you curtains or pancakes or polish food until she literally loses voice. She’s sweet and overprotective and excited to see my first solo living arrangement, so I’m happy to have her. I think we’ll have fun!

Being on a tighter budget has made me look around for some wallet friendly Christmas gifts to give this year. I’ve come across a lot of good ideas browsing through, you guessed it, Pinterest of course (I get sucked into that site entirely too easily).  Though, I love giving a really fitting gift to those I care about, so the search for and trial of some of these finds has been pretty fun for me.

I’ll leave you with this funny e-card that fits my current “counting-every-penny-because-I’m-a-renter” status right now:

Can I get this as a tattoo?

From the prairie with love,

Emily

Freebird… Or Girl

I recently got some great news! I have been working on solidifying this exciting happening for a couple months and just found out the other day that my rental application was approved and it’s now “full steam ahead” for “Operation: Move Out”! I don’t want to get ahead of myself, so let me back track a bit…
I have been blessed to live with my parents for the past two years. It’s been a pretty darn good experience too. We get along fairly well, and have both enjoyed being able to see each other so often. But I have been feeling that twenty-something need for independence for a while now, and am so happy that everything is coming together for me to move out on my own very soon.

If everything goes to plan, I should be moving into my new place in November. I have already enlisted the muscle power of my teenage brothers, and my Dad has offered to be the shuttle service that brings all my larger items from their place to mine.

Right now I keep looking at the photos of the apartment and trying to decide what kitchen drawer would be best for silverware, or where to put the couch in the living room, and basically getting excited about all the small things that mean this place is all mine! It may be a bit silly at times, but this move is a really good thing for me, and I’m super pumped to have this happening so smoothly.

So here’s to moving on up, or out, and spreading my wings a little at a time!

From the prairie with love,

Emily